There's something to be said about manners, don't you think? They're one of those aspects of our lives that is either active, dormant, or totally dead. I love a good show of chivalry - someone holding a door open for a person, saying "thank you" and "excuse me", even cracking a smile. Manners are not one of those old-fashioned traditions people used to live out when they walked around town with dresses up to their necks, and top hats and canes shouting, "Cheerio!" to their fellow streetwalkers. They have everything to do with respect. Don't we all want to be treated with respect? Don't we all want to be acknowledged that our presence matters? I would certainly hope we would all say yes.
Greetings aren't the only types of manners that hold value, but even (dare I say?) holding in what I like to call "gaseous vapors" at the dinner table. Now belches, on the other hand, are actually considered a gesture of respect in some countries. I don't know if I could go so far as to say that, myself. I'm not really into hearing or smelling someone's eau-du-toilette scent while I'm trying to enjoy my macaroni and cheese or a sweet indulgence of chocolate cake. Sound gross? That's because it is. That's where manners come in to play to save the day!! So let's focus on manners as being innate or cultural. More than likely they are cultural. My mom raised me to keep my elbows off the table when I ate. Being an adult now, I still remember her voice in my head telling me to put my elbows down and sit up straight when I'm eating (I will admit, I tend to fall off the wagon at times). They are good qualities to have, they're not nit-picky, just ways of showing self-respect and dignity. Manners do matter.
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